Well.... Yes. Ideally we don't scare off anyone who is good enough for Javert.

[ Annie had almost forgotten about how serious this was. The Inspector needs better taste in men. Annie has no idea how to say that to the man so this is a better plan. ]

Um. Bisexual is boys and girls. Pan includes... More. Like there's some people who don't have strong ties to a male or female identity. I suppose you could say pansexuals are more concerned with "I find this person attractive based on qualities I'm super into" without it being totally tied to gender? I'm just.... I'm a young woman and I'm allowed to not be settled even though I know I like girls and boys.